Have you ever feel down due to people look down at you? Well, frankly, I may don't ever bother, who look up at me. After all, everyone is special in its own way. However, when the statements given to you directly, sounds harsh, you need a second thought. I call that as 'muhasabah' rather than judging yourself bad. Once in a while, we need space and support from the people surround you, especially, your family members. But, when your family members often uttered the negative words to you, hello, wait a minute, am I too bad? Yups, we need to refresh sometimes. After all, that is life. Take it positively, Allah knows the best for you. Keep on trying and improving. Well, life is too short to take seriously of all what people said about or directly to you.